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Gujrati Nagar Brahmin Wedding Rituals & Customs

pavanguptacasd — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:28:57 +0000

Gujrati Nagar Brahmin Wedding Rituals & Customs

The Gujarati community reflects unbounded enthusiasm in the affairs of matrimonial alliance. Their weddings are organised on a grand scale and their rituals are very colourful. It is important to note that like all Indian communities, there maybe a slight differentiation in matrimonials and rituals performed amongst different Gujarati sects like the Gujarati Naagar Brahmins.

It is interesting to note that unlike most Indian communities where dowry plays a vital role, the Gujaratis have proved to be quite progressive. In case of the Naagar Brahmins, their girls are often married off with no expectations of wealth from the in-laws side. This is called kanku-kanya, meaning that the bride is welcome only with a vermilion mark on her forehead.

ceremonies:-

Chandlo: Ganesh Sthapan / Ganesh Matli:Garba:Pithi: Mandva Mahurat & Griha Shanti: Mosaalu: Lagna: Varghodo: Varmala: Mangalastak: Kanyadaan:Hasthamilap: Pheras: Vidai: Reception:

Chandlo: Acceptance of the alliance The ‘chandlo’ (applying the vermilion mark on the forehead) announces the acceptance of the alliance between the two families. This ceremony is usually observed after the matrimonial alliance is fixed but before the wedding date is fixed. A priest or ‘pujari’ officiates at this ceremony and blesses the couple by applying the ‘chandlo’ on their foreheads.
Brother giving offering Ganesh Sthapan / Ganesh Matli: Commencement of all marriage rituals The Ganesh ‘puja’ signals the start of all the festivities. The ‘Ganesh Sthapan’ is a small family function wherein the priest invokes the blessings of Lord Ganesha. The ‘puja’ is performed in both homes by the paternal aunts or ‘phois’. In return for their efforts the ‘phois’ receive lavish gifts.
Garba: Traditional Gujarati dance The ‘Garba raas’, a graceful Gujarati folk dance captures the essence of celebration and is performed in large circles by women singing and dancing to the beat of the ‘dhol’ (drum). The men join in for the ‘dandia raas’, a rhythmic dance performed with sticks or ‘dandias’. The Garba is normally held after 8 p.m. up until midnight.
Pithi: Beautification ritualsThe ‘pithi’ ceremony is performed simultaneously in both homes and prepares the bride and groom for the nuptials. A paste called ‘pithi’ made of sandalwood powder, turmeric, herbs, aromatic oils and rose water is prepared and applied on the faces, arms and legs of the bride by members of her family. The groom undergoes a similar ritual in his home.
Mandva Mahurat & Griha Shanti: Constructing the canopy for the wedding rites This ceremony bears a deep religious significance because the parents of the couple seek the blessings of Mother Earth and ask permission to commence with the digging of the soil to erect the ‘mandva’ or ‘mandap’ (platform erected for the wedding rites covered with a canopy).
Mosaalu: The bride receives gifts from her maternal uncle The custom of ‘mosaalu’ originated centuries ago when there were no legal rights existing for daughters. It was customary for the parents to start making provisions for their daughter by gifting her with things on occasions like ‘rakshabandhan’ or ‘bhaibheej’. These gifts accumulated as ‘streedhan’ (daughter’s wealth).
Naada-chadi : When the girl grows up and gets married the ‘mama’ or maternal uncle comes with the ‘mosaalu’ consisting of clothes, jewellery and other gift items including the traditional ‘paanetar’ (silk wedding sari – usually white with red border) and ‘choodo’ (ivory bangle – now replaced with acrylic or plastic). The ‘mosaalu’ ceremony takes place one day before the wedding
Varghodo: Groom’s procession The groom, dressed in all his finery and accompanied by his close friends and family proceeds to the bride’s home in a decorated car. Here, the modern day vehicle has replaced the traditional mare! The groom’s sister is his constant companion and keeps jingling the ‘looni’ (small steel bowl filled with betel nuts) near his ear all throughout the procession! .
Mangalsutra Varmala: The couple exchanges garlands The groom is welcomed by the bride’s mother with an ‘aarti’ and ‘pookhana’ (4 small sticks). The bride is then escorted to welcome the groom and proceeds to garland him and he reciprocates.
Mangalastak: Verses glorifying Lord Ganesha and asking for the well being of the coupleThese are a series of four lined verses with eight stanzas glorifying Lord Ganesha. The singing of the ‘mangalastak’ is a very distinct feature of marriages in the Naagar Brahmin community.
Kanyadaan : Giving away the bride Before the ‘kanyadaan’ can begin the bride’s parents renew their own marriage vows. The bride is then led into the ‘mandap’ by her ‘mama’ or maternal uncle. She is seated opposite the groom on a ‘paatla’ or ‘aasan’.
Hasthamilap: Tying of the marital knot The bride and groom’s hands are tied with a cloth in a symbolic marital knot and they take vows to honour their commitment to each other.
Pheras: Seven steps around the sacred fire Also known as ‘saptapadi’, the ‘pheras’ are performed immediately after the ‘hasthamilap’ ceremony. Here, the bride and groom walk around the sacred fire seven times repeating their marital vows. At the beginning of each ‘parikrama’ or circumvention, a vow is taken. The couple is then proclaimed man and wife and the ceremony is completed with the groom tying the ‘mangalsutra’ on the bride.
Vidai: After the ‘lagna’, the bride leaves her parental home in a ‘doli’ or palanquin. These days a decorated car usually replaces the palanquin. A ceremony wrought with emotion it is symbolic of the severing of the bride’s rights in her parent’s home as she now belongs to her ‘sasural’ (in-laws home). As she leaves, her brother presents her with a shawl, which is worn by her for the journey.
Reception: Post wedding celebrations Though a Western concept, the reception has become an integral part of most Indian marriages. The couple’s parents host a lavish banquet for their families and friends wherein the bride and groom are introduced as a married couple and are congratulated by all. The reception is usually held in a hotel or a marriage hall.
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pavanguptacasd — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:21:37 +0000

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Jewish Orthodox Wedding Rituals & Customs

pavanguptacasd — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:19:29 +0000

Jewish Orthodox Wedding Rituals & Customs

The world of Jewish weddings can be extremely confusing. Unfortunately, it’s not just a matter of the differences between Reform, Conservative, and Orthodox Jewish weddings. The range of authentic Jewish traditions and customs that couples incorporate into their weddings is staggering, especially when you consider all of the variations.

ceremonies :-

Engagement The Aufruf: The Grooms Reception The Wedding day Mincha Baddekin The Procession Kiddushin Ketubah Nissuin:Mitzvah

Breaking the Glass: Yichud: Seudat

Engagement
In ancient Jewish tradition, the groom gave his bride an engagement gift. In modern times it is customary for this gift to be a diamond ring. The stone specifically indicates that it is not a wedding ring and symbolizes that the bride is as precious to the groom as a diamond.

The Aufruf:
The groom has to be called by the Rabbi (rabbis are teachers specially trained in the law of the Torah or the Jewish Bible, to guide the Jews through life), who invites him to read the Torah in the synagogue, on the Sabbath morning before the wedding.
After the groom is called for the ‘aliyah’ (blessing God at the reading of the Torah), the entire congregation tosses small packets of candy and nuts on him, while he is returning to his seat in the synagogue.

The Grooms Reception
Before the wedding ceremony, the groom sits at the head of table specially laid out for him, known as the ‘Chatan’s Tisch’ (literally translated, means the groom’s table), where he is treated like a king. The elders of the family discuss much legality and the civil marriage license is signed and witnessed.

The Wedding Day:
On the wedding day, tradition has it that all past sins are forgiven as the couple begins a new life together. The wedding takes a certain similarity to Yom Kippur – the Day of Atonement. This similarity is signified by the recitation of the Afternoon Service of the Viddui – the confessional of the Yom Kippur. To further emphasize this similarity, the bride and groom fast on their wedding day.

Mincha:
After the couple and the Rabbi sign the ketubah, the family proceeds to the synagogue for the recital of the afternoon Mincha prayers. Preparations are made for the groom to proceed to the reception, which is known as the ‘Baddekin’

Baddekin:
This ceremony takes place at the same time as the groom’s reception – at the Chatan’s Tisch. The bride enters the festive buffet reception accompanied by her family, who is called the ‘Hachnasat Kallah’ (literally meaning, ‘accompanying the bride’).

The Procession:
This procession begins with the entrance of the Mesader Kesushin (presiding Rabbi). The groom enters the ‘chuppah’ first. The ‘chuppah’ is a canopy covered with embroidered silk or satin fabric, held up by 4 tall posts, which in turn are held up by relatives or friends and the wedding is solemnized under it.

Kiddushin:
The Jewish marriage ceremony is divided into two parts: the ‘Kiddushin’ or the blessing over wine and the ‘Birkat Kiddushin’ or thanking God for the sanctity of marriage.
The bride and groom take a sip of the wine and the ‘Kiddushin’ is completed upon the bride’s acceptance of the wedding ring.

Ketubah:
To separate the betrothal blessings from the marriage blessings (Sheva Brachot – seven spoken marriage blessings), the ‘Ketubah’ is read aloud in Aramaic (a Semitic language used after Hebrew). The ‘ketubah’ is a binding document that details the groom’s obligation to the bride. Therein.

Nissuin:
This is the recitation of the seven marriage blessings. As in ‘Kiddushin’, the first blessing is over wine. The second and the third speaks of creation, the fourth is for Zion’s joy, the fifth is for the joy of the bridal couple, and the sixth is a prayer, that the couple should experience the same joy that Adam and Eve had in creation

Breaking the Glass:
It is customary for the groom to smash a glass by stamping on it at the conclusion of the ceremony, with his right foot. Once the glass is broken, there are shouts of ‘Mazel Tov’, which, in Hebrew means ‘Good Stars’, ‘Good Luck, Congratulations!’

Yichud:
After the completion of all the ceremonies, the couple moves to a private room. Before they enter, two witnesses ascertain that no one else is in the room. The bride enters the room first and waits for the groom.

Seudat Mitzvah:
During the wedding feast, all the guests and relatives participate in the ‘mitzvah’ (good deed) of ‘Lesameach Chatan Ve Kallah’ or celebrating in joy with the bride and groom.

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Marwari Agarwal Wedding Rituals & Customs

pavanguptacasd — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:17:21 +0000

Marwari Agarwal Wedding Rituals & Customs

The Marwari Agrawals l community though orthodox and tradition bound are still full of life, drive and initiative. For them matrimony is an occasion for great extravagance, pomp and splendor..

Vast amounts are spent on decorations, food, jewelry, clothes and gifts. The matrimonial ceremonies are bright and joyous and the lavish wedding celebrations can carry on for several days.

Ceremonies:-

Mudha Tikka:Godh-barai: Sangeet:Naandi:Bhaat: Tel Baan: Mehndi: Korath: Baraat: Baraat Swagat:Varamala: Pheras: Kanyadaan: Seer-Guthi: Chuda: Mooh Dekai: Jua & Muthi bund: Vidaai: Vadhu pravesh:

Mudha-tikka:

Engagement ceremony On an auspicious day, decided by an astrologer, the groom’s family call on the bride, taking with them, a platter filled with rice, jaggery, dry fruits, sweetmeats, a diamond ring and sometimes a garland for the ‘tikka’

Godh Barai:

The groom’s sisters bring lavish gifts for the bride
On an elaborately decorated tray, the groom’s sisters carry gifts, jewellery, toys, clothes and sweets and place these on the bride’s ‘jholi’ (lap)

Sangeet:

Musical get together by the ladies of the family The bride sits on a silver ‘chowki’ or low stool, in all her finery, wearing the jewellery gifted to her after the ‘mudha-tikka’ ceremony and is surrounded by all the ladies from both families.

Naandi:

Pre-wedding puja
Approximately ten days before the wedding ceremony, the family ‘pujaris’ (Brahmin priests), perform the Ganesha puja in the bride’s and the groom’s homes. .

Bhaat:

The bride’s maternal uncle is invited to attend the wedding
In most Marwari Agrawal families, the ‘mama’ or bride’s maternal uncle plays a crucial role in the marriage. The custom is, for the ‘mama’ to bestow lavish gifts on his niece at the time of her wedding and she would not then make any further claims on her father’s wealth

Tel Baan:

A ritual bath The ladies of the families ‘prepare’ the bride and groom (in each respective home) for the forthcoming wedding

Mehndi:

The henna ceremony This ceremony is usually held one day before the wedding ceremony and takes place in the afternoon or early evening

Korath:

The male members from the bride’s family invite the groom to the wedding venue When the bride is ready and the auspicious time for the wedding ritual is nigh, male members from the bride’s family go to the groom’s home,

Baraat:

The groom leaves for the wedding venue in a ceremonial procession
The groom, in all his splendour and armed with a sword (a Rajput tradition), mounts an elaborately decorated mare and proceeds to the marriage venue

Pheras:

Seven steps around the sacred fire
After the varamala, the pujari (Brahmin priest) lights the ‘homa’ or sacred fire. Offerings are made into the sacred fire as a form of thanksgiving and purification. The bride’s ‘duppata’ or veil is tied to the grooms waist band, and the couples goes around the fire seven times, repeating their marriage vows.

Kanyadaan:

Giving away the bride
A silver or gold coin is placed in the bride’s palms, which are held together by her father, who then places them in the hands of the groom. Amidst prayers, the pujari pours water over their joined hands and blesses them

MUTI-BUND:

The groom closes his hand in a tight fist and the bride tries very hard to open it! Then the bride does the same and it is the groom’s turn to unlock her fist.

Vidaai:

In all Hindu weddings, this is considered to be the most emotional ritual, when the bride leaves her parents’ home and makes her way to her husband’s. Family and friends, who also shower her with blessings and gifts,

Vadhu Pravesh:

Bride enters her husband’s home
When the bride arrives at her new home, her mother-in-law, who welcomes her with the traditional ‘aarti’, helps her out of the car.

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Maharastrian Maratha Wedding Rituals & Customs

pavanguptacasd — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:14:10 +0000

Maharastrian Maratha Wedding Rituals & Customs The Maharashtrian Wedding Rituals & Customs are performed with a lot of gaiety and enthusiasm. Maharashtrian Weddings are performed in proper traditional way and all the rituals are performed by a priest. Hence, the Maharashtrian Wedding Rituals comprise of the typical Hindu wedding rituals. Each stage in the wedding ritual in Maharashtra has some important significance and it is more of a homely affair than a boisterous show. Unlike the other wedding rituals in India, the Maharashtrian Wedding rituals are carried out in day time, mostly in the afternoon. It is rather the wedding that is celebrated in simplest way. It is less lavish than the other weddings in India. The Maharashtrian Wedding dress is as usual gorgeous and eye catching as the wedding dresses in other communities. The bride wears a conventional Maharashtrian green colored sari. Most commonly the Paithani kind of sari is used. The bride for the wedding wears the typical Maharashtrian seven pearl studs. The bride also wears green bangles, considered to be very fortunate for any function. The bride wears toe rings, pearl and bead nath or the nose ring and a bright bindhi. The groom is dressed in dhoti or salwar and kurta, or sherwani. Wedding feasts are served on banana leaves and people are seated on the floor to enjoy the feast. The bride, the groom, and their families eat on silver plates. Few special Maharashtrian wedding dishes include batata bhaji, pitlai, sheera, varan, shrikhand, vatanyachi usal.
ceremonies:- The engagement: Bangdi Bharan: Mehendi: Previous day’s celebrations: Varpuja: Haldi: Varaat: Lagna Mahurat: Varmala: Sulagna: Hara Dhera:Griha Pravesh: Kankan: Reception:
The Engagement: After the horoscopes of the bride and groom are matched and the decision is made for them to marry, a formal engagement ceremony is held. An auspicious date is determined by the ‘pujari’ (priest), and the bride’s parents host the event. This is called the ‘mahurat’. Their home is decorated with flowers and mango leaves and ‘rangoli’ patterns are made on the floor.
Bangdi Bharan: This ceremony is held two days before the wedding, in the bride’s home. The ‘bangadiwala’ or bangle seller is called home. The bride’s mother gives him edible leaves, a coconut and one coin.
Mehendi: Though this is not a traditional Maharashtrian ceremony, it is popular and incorporated into wedding celebrations by many families. Henna paste is applied on the palms and feet of the bride by professional henna artists or ‘mehendiwalis’ in intricate patterns and leon for several hours to dry and for the colour to develop into a deep red.
Previous day’s celebrations: Three or four days before the wedding, wheat is sown in the earth and allowed to sprout. One day before the wedding the ‘mandap’ (platform for the wedding rites) is erected in front of the homes of the bride and groom.
Varpuja: Honouring the groom On the day prior to the wedding the bride’s mother washes the groom’s feet in a silver platter or ‘thaali’. The ‘varadakshina’ or groom’s offering is given to him.
Haldi: After the ‘varpuja’ the next ceremony is held in the bride’s home. A mixture of ‘haldi’ (turmeric) and oil is applied on her face, hands and feet by ‘sumangalis’ or married ladies. She is then led for her bath.
Varaat: On the wedding day, the groom sits and waits in a nearby temple with his close relatives, for the bride’s relatives to come and fetch him for the wedding ceremony. The bride’s family shower him with gifts at this time and then escort the groom, who is mounted on an elaborately decorated mare to the wedding venue.
Lagna Mahurat: The wedding ceremony – divided into following segments:Varmala: The couple exchanges garlands After the priest determines the exact time for the wedding rites the groom is led to the ‘mandap’ followed by the bride.
Sulagna: The blessing After the ‘varmala’, the bride and groom are made to sit on chairs while all the elders perform ‘aarti’ for them and shower them with blessings, gifts and money.
Hara Dhera: Bridal send off On the evening after the wedding rites are completed, the groom’s ‘varaat’ leaves taking the bride with them. Before she leaves, the bride’s parents give her ‘hara dhera’ – a basket with floor lamps, ‘chappatis’ (typical Indian ‘rotis’ made from wheat) and an idol of Lord Krishna.
Griha Pravesh: The bride enters her marital home The groom’s mother and sister receive the bridal couple at the doorstep. His older sister performs a brief ‘aarti’ with a lighted oil lamp for them.
Kankan: The day after the bride arrives in her marital home, the ‘kankans’, which were tied to everybody’s hands one day before the wedding, are now removed.A ‘Satyanarayana Puja’ (special ‘puja’ for Lord Vishnu) is conducted and the couple comes back to the bride’s home, where another ‘Satyanarayana Puja’ is observed..
Reception: Though this is not a social requirement, many families choose to host a reception to celebrate the wedding and introduce the bride and groom to their friends, family and even business associates..
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Maharastrian Konkanastha Brahmin Wedding Rituals & Customs

pavanguptacasd — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:11:19 +0000

Maharastrian Konkanastha Brahmin Wedding Rituals & Customs

Among the many regional communities living in India, Maharashtrians perhaps have the simplest and least opulent . The process begins with called Lagnaach Bedi. Though these days marriages are quite common, many boys and girls still prefer to go in for marriages arranged by parents. Typically, Maharshtrians go in for marriage alliance between equal status families. However, the marriage alliance is finalized only after matching of the horoscopes by family pundit. Following this, the pundit decides the auspicious date for the wedding

ceremonies:-
Engagement: Vyahi Bhojan: Grahamak / Nav Grahi Shanti Puja:Bangdi Bharan: Mehendi: Kelvan: Seemant Pujan and Vaang Nischayam: Ghana Bharan and Haldi: Dev Devak: Gauri Haar Puja: Varaat: Rukhavat: Lagna Mahurat: Varmala: Kanyadaan: Mangalsutra: Paani Grahan: Lajja Hom: Saptapadi: Ashirwaad: Wedding feast: Vidaai: Griha Pravesh: Reception: Panch Pavan:

The Engagement:
After the horoscopes of the bride and groom are matched and the decision is made for them to marry, a formal engagement ceremony is held. An auspicious date is determined by the ‘pujari’ (priest), and the bride’s parents host the event.

Ooti Bharana

The groom’s parents bless the bride and gift her a ‘sari’, some jewellery and flowers for her hair. The bride leaves to change into the ‘sari’ and wear the jewellery gifted to her.
The bride’s parents also bless the groom and give him a suit, a watch and other gifts. They also have gifts for his parents, usually clothes

Ooti Bharana

The groom’s parents bless the bride and gift her a ‘sari’, some jewellery and flowers for her hair. The bride leaves to change into the ‘sari’ and wear the jewellery gifted to her.

Vyahi Bhojan:

The groom’s family invites the bride’s family for a meal
On any auspicious day before the wedding the groom’s parents invite the bride’s parents and other family members for a meal. If the family lives in another city, then this event takes place one day prior to the wedding and is hosted in a marriage hall.

Grahamak / Nav Grahi Shanti Puja:

Invoking harmony within the planetsThis ‘puja’ is performed separately in both homes. A ‘homa’ or sacred fire is lit and the ‘nav grahi shanti puja’ (puja of the nine planets) is conducted.

Bangdi Bharan:

The bangle ceremony
This ceremony is held two days before the wedding, in the bride’s home. The ‘bangadiwala’ or bangle seller is called home. The bride’s mother gives him edible leaves, a coconut and one coin. He first slips the green bangles on the bride’s wrist. The bangles have to be uneven in number.

Mehendi:

The henna ceremony
Though this is not a traditional Maharashtrian ceremony, it is popular and incorporated into wedding celebrations by many families. Henna paste is applied on the palms and feet of the bride by professional henna artists or ‘mehendiwalis’ in intricate patterns and left on for several hours to dry and for the colour to develop into a deep red.

Kelvan Kelvan:

The bride’s last meal as a maiden in her parental home
The bride is seated at a table which has been decorated with ‘rangoli’, patterns made from coloured powder and lentils, in the midst of which is a silver ‘thaali’ (platter) specially laid out for her.

Seemant Pujan and Vaang Nischayam:

Honouring the groomOn the day prior to the wedding the bride’s mother washes the groom’s feet in a silver platter or ‘thaali’. The ‘varadakshina’ or groom’s offering is given to him. Married ladies from the bride’s family perform an ‘aarti’ for him. His mother’s feet are also washed and she is presented with a sari.

Ghana Bharan and Haldi:

Beautification rituals
On the morning of the wedding day the bride and her parents are seated on a wooden plank or ‘pat’. Married ladies or ‘sumangalis’ pound wheat with a wooden rod called ‘musal’. The bride and her parents offer prayers to the deities to ensure that the wedding rituals are devoid of any impediments and everything goes smoothly.

Dev Devak:

Divine blessings are sought from the family deity
The days leading up to the wedding are filled with religious and social customs. As with any auspicious occasion, divine blessings are sought before embarking on festivities

Gauri Haar Puja:

The bride performs a ‘puja’ for Goddess Gauri
The goddess Gauri (Parvati) was considered the perfect wife. As an Aryan princess marrying a non-Aryan, Lord Shiva, she merged herself completely with an alien culture and the unfamiliar lifestyle of her husband’s family.

Varaat:

The wedding processionIn preparation for his wedding, the groom wears a silk ‘dhoti’ (a waist to ankle length silk fabric with borders) and an ‘angavastram’ (stole) across his shoulders. Traditionally he is supposed to go bare chested, but these days most men prefer to wear a ‘kurta’ (long shirt) along with the ‘dhoti’.

Rukhavat:

Breakfast is served to the groom and his close relatives After the ‘aarti’ the groom and his procession are served a traditional Maharashtrian breakfast called ‘rukhavat’.

Lagna Mahurat:

The wedding ceremony – divided into following segments:

Varmala:

The couple exchanges garlands
After the ‘rukhavat’, the bride’s mother puts some ‘ghee’ or clarified butter in the groom’spalms, which he is supposed to eat. He is then given a decorated coconut and escorted to the ‘mandap’ (platform erected for the wedding rites). The bride’s parents and other members from her family wash the feet of the groom, his parents and close relatives before the wedding ceremony can begin.

Kanyadaan Kanyadaan:

Giving away the bride
According to rites prescribed in ancient Vedic texts, the bride’s father takes the groom’s right hand with his own right hand and places it over his daughter’s right hand

Mangalsutra:

The groom ties the ‘mangalsutra’ on the brideAt the exact auspicious time indicated by the priests, the groom’s ties the ‘mangalsutra’ around the bride’s neck. The necklace of black beads strung on gold is symbolic of the perpetual union of the couple.

Paani Grahan:

The groom vows to look after his wife The bride and groom face each other and he places his palm on hers while he invokes the gods and the forces of nature saying: “Blessed bride, I accept your hand – may we prosper and grow old together”.

Lajja Hom:

Sacrifice offered to the sacred fire
The bride’s brother gives his sister two fistfuls of ‘lahaya’ (puffed rice). The groom guides the bride’s hands and the puffed rice is consigned to the sacred fire, while the priests invoke the Gods by chanting Vedic hymns. This signifies the bridegroom asking the bride to merge completely with her new family.

Saptapadi:

Seven steps around the sacred fire
Seven handfuls of rice are placed in the northern periphery of the ‘mandap’. As the groom leads the bride to each pile, she places her right toe on it, while he says:
‘With this first step be the giver of food’.
‘With this second step be the source of strength’.
‘With this third step be my prosperity’.
‘With this fourth step be my source of happiness’.
‘With this fifth step be the mother of our children’.
‘With this sixth step be my companion in all seasons’.
‘With this seventh step be my friend forever’

Ashirwaad:

The blessing The couple is showered with rice again while the priests continue the recitation of prescribed Vedic hymns, repeated by the groom. The couple touches the feet of all the family members who are older than them and accept blessings from them.

Wedding Feast:

Traditional meal served on banana leaves
Even if the lunch is served buffet-style, special arrangements are made to seat the groom’s family. The newly wed couple first go around and greet all the guests, serving them sweetmeats, and only after that do they proceed to partake of the meal.
A Maharashtrian wedding feast is worth waiting for!

Vidaai:

Bridal send off The groom goes to the shrine where his bride had earlier worshipped Goddess Gauri and takes the figure of the deity with him.

Griha Pravesh:

The bride enters her marital home
The groom’s mother and sister receive the bridal couple at the doorstep. His older sister performs a brief ‘aarti’ with a lighted oil lamp for them.

Reception:

Post wedding celebrations
Though this is not a social requirement, many families choose to host a reception to celebrate the wedding and introduce the bride and groom to their friends, family and even business associates.

Panch Pavan:

Wedding feast served on the fifth day after the weddingOn the fifth day after the marriage the bride’s family invites the groom’s family for a big feast.

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Parsee Wedding Rituals & Customs

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Parsee Wedding Rituals & Customs
India has a diverse culture of many faiths and religions, which makes it the most unique country in the world. Every religion has its own customs and traditions, which traverse the boundary of religion, cast and creed and India is no different! The Indian customs and rituals attract many tourists to this country. Right from the birth to death, there is hardly any occasion that does not have an elaborate ceremony. Soon after the birth of a child, the Namkaran ceremony is held, which is marked by chanting of slokas and singing of hymns. Even the weddings and festivals are grand affairs in India, as they follow various customs and rituals. The rituals that follow the festivals are very important and are performed with utmost care to provide an aesthetic and spiritual experience to the festival. Even after the death of people, the cremation ceremonies are held according to rituals. Like other Indian marriages, thewedding rituals and customs of Parsi community are also spread over a couple of days. In Parsi wedding also, the wedding celebrations are divided into three parts- pre wedding rituals, wedding day rituals and post wedding rituals. As marriage is a religious ritual encouraged in the Parsi religion, Parsi people consider marriage to be an occasion of social as well as religious celebrations. If you are keen about knowing the details of the Parsi wedding ceremony, given below is the detailed description of the Parsi marriage traditions from Pre-Marriage to Post Marriage Traditions.
List Of Ceremonies :-
Rupia Peravanu: The unofficial engagement This is the unofficial engagement when both families acknowledge and give their assent for the marriage. During the ceremony ladies from the groom’s family (usually 5 or 7 but never more than 9) proceed to the bride’s home
Bride A female member of the family holds a silver/silver-plated tray, containing a ‘kutli’ (spout less mug) of water, some rice, ‘sakar’ (large sugar crystals),
Groom Adravanu or Nam Padvun: The engagement The betrothal ceremony is also called ‘nam padvun’ because after the girl is engaged she takes on the bridegroom’s name. The groom’s mother and other ladies of the household proceed to the bride’s home where they are greeted with nuptial songs.
Groom Adravanu or Nam Padvun: The engagement The betrothal ceremony is also called ‘nam padvun’ because after the girl is engaged she takes on the bridegroom’s name. The groom’s mother and other ladies of the household proceed to the bride’s home where they are greeted with nuptial songs.
Mandav-Saro: Planting of the mango sapling This is the first ceremony that takes place four days before the actual marriage ceremony. It has to be performed separately in both homes.
Aderni: Gifts for the bride are handed over to the groom’s family by the bride’s father In accordance with Parsee tradition, the bride’s father provides every single item required to set up a home, for his daughter. These items include all the necessary kitchen appliances, furniture, upholstery, white goods etc.
Varadh Patra: Religious ceremonies performed in honour of dead ancestors The third and fourth days are known as ‘varadh-patra’ days when religious ceremonies are performed in honour of dead ancestors.
Nahn: Ritualistic bath On the wedding day the bride and groom have a ‘sacred bath’ either in the morning or in the afternoon, with consecrated water. This bath is known as the ‘nahn’.
The Wedding: Commencement of marriage rituals Most Parsee weddings take place in the evening, a little after sunset.The bridegroom usually sits in the compound of the house, in the midst of all his male relatives and friends.
The wedding procession: The families visit each other carrying gifts for the bride and groom Approximately an hour or so before the festivities begin; the bride’s family and friends proceed to the groom’s house carrying clothes, jewellery and other valuables for him.
Welcoming the wedding procession Before the groom’s family can cross the threshold of the bride’s home, the welcoming ceremonies are performed at the door to welcome the groom. A fresh ‘kumkum’ (vermilion) mark is made on his forehead and rice is stuck on it. He now crosses the threshold with his right foot first. Two married ladies from his family follow the groom carrying the ‘ses’ (tray) containing new clothes for him.
The marriage ceremony: Two married men preferably having children, usually the nearest relatives of the bridal couple are made to stand next to the couple at this time. They will essay the role of marriage witnesses. Certain prerequisites are essential for solemnizing the marriage according to ancient writings as well as modern customs.
Wedding Tying the marital knot The bride and groom sit facing each other, separated by a cloth, which is held between them as a curtain. Now the senior of the two priests places the right hand of the bride into the right hand of the groom. Then he passes a piece of cloth around both the chairs on which the couple is seated, enclosing them in a circle. The ends of the cloth are tied together. This knot is strictly speaking the ‘marriage knot’.
Hathevaro: Hand fastening After tying the marriage knot, which symbolically encloses the bridal couple in a circle of unity, the priest proceeds to fasten the couple’s right hands in a ‘raw twist’ (several threads are twined into one and tied).
Showering of rice by the couple The ladies urge the bride and groom (whomsoever they are close to and are representing at the occasion) to be the first one to throw the rice grains at the other. It is believed that the one to throw the rice first, at the signal, will be the one who will lead the marriage, and be foremost in loving and respecting the other!
The Vows: The strictly religious part of the marriage What follow are the nuptial vows between the bridal couple. The officiating priests stand before the pair, and the senior priest blesses the couple.
Ashirwaad: The blessingBoth officiating priests recite what is known as the ‘Paevandnameh’ or ‘ashirwaad’ (blessing). This recital consists of admonitions, prayers and benedictions.Once the admonitions are over, the priests recite the ‘benedictions’ invoking the favour of virtues from the ‘Yazatas’ (angels).The next set of prayers in this wedding ceremony is made in honour of the dear departed souls
Chedda Cheddi: Light hearted ceremony The first post marriage custom is known as ‘chedda cheddi’. The closest relative of the couple ties the skirts of the ‘jama’ (the flowing dress) or the bridegroom to the bride’s sari
Washing of feet In the olden days this custom of washing the feet of the bridal couple was strictly adhered to; these days however, owing to the inconvenience of removing shoes, it is customary to wash only the tips of the shoes! The same unmarried girl, who offered him the ‘var behevoon’ earlier, washes the groom’s feet. She sprinkles a few drops of milk on his new shoes.
Dahi-Koomro: Special meal for the bridal couple The bride and groom feed each other morsels of food, of which ‘dahi’ (yogurt) forms an essential part. ‘Dahi-koomro’ is a dish made from vermicelli and curds.
Eki Beki: Light hearted ceremonyThough now almost obsolete, it is still worth mentioning this custom for the fun and frolic associated with it! Eki Beki is a form of play. The bride and groom, each, have several rupees in their hands. Turn by turn each one hides a certain amount in the right hand, and asks the other whether the number is ‘eki’ (odd) or ‘beki’ (even).
Bridal send off After all the marriage ceremonies are over the bride is escorted to her husband’s home, while the ladies sing nuptial songs. After the marriage feast, which takes place later, she is once again accorded a ceremonial send off when bridal songs are sung.
The marriage feast The final celebration of a Parsee wedding is typically the marriage feast, hosted by the parents of the bride and groom in honour of all the relatives, friends and guests. In a Parsee wedding it is customary to offer several toasts at the marriage feast: • A toast in remembrance of God • The married couple • The sacred fire temples • The guests • The host • His Majesty the King
Varova:This is the first day after the wedding that the bride is sent to visit her parents. She usually receives a new set of clothes for this occasion. The same evening her parents invite their ‘jamai’ (son-in-law), his parents, sisters and brothers for dinner.
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Wedding Arrangements

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Wedding Arrangements

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Traditional Performance:-

Traditions & Customs form India & traditional performers bring dance & masti to every traditional function. Mehandi ki raat ho ya Dholki dinner, Ghadoli pe boliya ho ya Chura pe khushiwale geet, without them the functions are incomplete.
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Gujarati Performers

Bhajan Singers:-

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Gujrati Nagar Brahmin Wedding Rituals & Customs

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